by Hanami Dream | 21, December, 2016 | #UKWedLunch, traditions
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 21st December 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, this week there’s a wedding traditions quiz (just for fun!) Tweet your replies (answers at the end of #UKWedLunch)
Here we go… QUESTION 1: What was the original meaning of the word ‘bride’? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 2: Which is said to be the unluckiest day to get married on? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 3: Tiered cakes emerged from a game where couples tried to do what over an ever-higher cake without knocking it over? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 4: If the younger of 2 sisters marries first, what must the older one do at the wedding or risk not finding a partner? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 5: In Denmark, what would couples dress up as to confuse evil spirits? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 6: What do Czechs throw at newlyweds instead of rice? #UKWedLunch
Hope you’ve had fun! Here are the answers: A1= cook, A2= Saturday, A3= kiss, A4= dance barefoot, A5= each other, A6= peas #UKWedLunch
Congratulations if you got all the questions correct. See more wedding traditions on Hanami Dream blog https://www.hanamidream.co.uk/category/traditions/#UKWedLunch
Look forward to seeing you again in 2017 from Wednesday 4th Jan 1-2pm for more wedding planning chat #UKWedLunch
All the very best for a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! #UKWedLunch
Having a break from wedding planning chat next week, but there will be a round up of top posts from 2016. Feel free to tweet yours to #UKWedLunch on Wed 1-2pm

by Hanami Dream | 7, December, 2016 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 7th December 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, there’s some #toptips as well. This week’s theme is ‘guest book ideas’ #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: Get your guests to contribute and colour in a giant poster mural @fancyfeatures #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: Ask people to sign decorative, keep sake items for your home such as quilt, globe or Christmas baubles #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: Have a recipe book where everyone contributes a favourite recipe to be printed in a book @recipegiftbook #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Get guests to put their best wishes on to labels to hang from a wish tree @treeofhearts #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: Frame an illustration of your venue which guests can sign @illustratedinvites #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: Have hand written messages on various hearts placed around a cut out framed tree @papertreedesign #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips taken from Hanami Dream blog ‘Alternative wedding guest book ideas‘ #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 30, November, 2016 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 30th November 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, there’s some #toptips as well. This week’s theme is ‘thank you gifts’ #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: Gifts for guests can be great mementos of the day showing your appreciation & matching your theme or colour scheme #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: Sugared almonds are traditional (give an odd number) they represent Health, Wealth, Happiness, Long Life & Fertility #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: Couples are choosing unique, personalised, dated & themed gifts to eat, meet, keep or have as a treat #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Give gifts to thank the wedding party for their support – these can be really personalised to the individual #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: You might want to buy your new spouse a 0 anniversary gift to celebrate your wedding day #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: Whether you give favours or not, don’t forget to thank all your guests for their presence and their presents #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips taken from Hanami Dream blog ‘Thank you gifts at weddings‘ #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 23, November, 2016 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 23rd November 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, there’s some #toptips as well. This week’s theme is ‘dietary requirements’ #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: Ask your guests as early as you can – include a section on your RSVP cards #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: Customise your menu so that anyone can enjoy the main aspect of the meal #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: Consider: Vegetarian, Vegan, Non dairy, Gluten free, Kosher, Halal, Hindu, Diabetic, Nut free, Child friendly #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Establish elements of the menu – confirm with guests & show them specific ingredient lists from the chef #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: How you serve food can have an impact on offering alternatives (sit down vs buffet) #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: Don’t forget about all meals and beverages that are going to be consumed during the day including your wedding cake #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips taken from Hanami Dream blog ‘Catering for special dietary requirements‘ #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 15, November, 2016 | blog, tips
Your wedding day is a unique kind of day when your ‘circles’ all come together. It’s not often that you have all the people from different walks of your life in the same room at the same time. How wonderful to look around and see the people you love just there for you two.
Photographs are a brilliant way of capturing who celebrated your big day with you, plus traditionally guests sign a keep sake book and leave a poignant message for the happy couple to read back after the special day. This lovely tradition has got some modern updates and ingenious alternative ideas.

Here are a few of my favourite wedding guest book alternatives:
- Photographs
- Take polaroids of guests on the day and put them in a book alongside a handwritten message
- Have a photo booth for people to take their own snaps of the day
- Have a video diary or place where people can leave their own video messages
- Paper
- Have a recipe book where everyone contributes a favourite recipe to be printed in a book (see recipegiftbook.com below)
- Get guests to complete a calendar with their message on their own birthday or special anniversary
- Ask guests to write how they know bride & groom on postcards
- Provide advice cards for guests to suggest date night ideas
- Leave notes and cards in an engraved oak lift-lid box (see Make Memento below)
- Get guests to put their best wishes on to labels to hang from a wish tree (see Tree of Hearts below)
- Ask guests to write their messages and seal them in a bottle to be opened on their first anniversary
- Furniture / homeware
- Encourage guests to sign a pottery wedding plate that you can display or use in your kitchen (see Busy Brush Café below)
- Get guests to sign a piece of wooden garden furniture such as a swing seat, table or bench
- Ask people to sign decorative, keep sake items for your home such as a quilt, globe or Christmas baubles
- Provide bottle labels for wine that people can write advice or wishes to be read on wine to be opened for future anniversaries
- Poster / artwork
- Use guests fingerprints to create the leaves on a tree on a canvas that be hung afterwards (see Tree of Hearts below)
- Have hand written messages on various hearts placed around a cut out framed tree (see Paper Tree Design below)
- Frame an illustration of your venue which guests can sign (see Illustrated Invites below)
- Get your guests to contribute and colour in a giant poster mural (see Fancy Features below)
- Ask your hen party to all ‘kiss the miss goodbye‘ and place their lipstick mark next to their signature for instant framed artwork
- Provide wine corks for guests to sign and then be framed
- Place signed pebbles or wooden hearts in a big glass vase
- Games
- Get guests to sign jigsaw or Jenga blocks
- Write labels with wishes and attach them to balloons that can be launched at the end of the day
And take a look at these brilliant local suppliers that can bring a different angle to a guest book at your wedding:
Busy Brush Café

Create a beautiful and highly personalised platter or serving plate, design it with a painting of your venue or of the happy couple and have it glazed and fired ready to present at your wedding along with a special ceramics pen that guests can use to write their message on the plate.
Busy Brush Cafe offer wedding plates of all shapes and sizes that can be used every day in the kitchen or hung up on the wall for decoration. Spend a couple of hours in the quirky and supportive cafe environment and have fun painting up your own plate, or have one of the team design it all for you to specification. The plates can then be collected a few days later once they’ve been glazed and kiln fired and the team will provide you with a permanent ceramics pen for guest messages that will last a lifetime! Prices range from £40 to £150 depending on size and detail required.

@busyatbusybrush
Fancy Features
Fancy Features make Giant Colouring In – fully personalised artwork hand illustrated to canvas ready to get coloured in by you and your friends at your event. We design and deliver artwork to clients all over the world.
Illustrated Invitation

A small family business located in Somerset, who are passionate in bringing a niche service to wedding stationery.
Producing beautifully detailed pencil sketches of the couple’s wedding venue or church which are then used as a theme throughout the wedding stationery products. Choices of colours, font styles and wording of invitation according to your needs ensures a personal and unique touch to the couple’s stationery. “Designed exclusively for You”.
Our Guest Comment Frame is proving particularly popular for its uniqueness as we go one step further than to just leave a blank space for guests to write on at the reception.
We provide guests with ‘message cards’ for them to write on during the reception, which has proved to be a great talking point after the speeches have been done and dusted and a lull in the proceedings whilst coffee is being served.
After the honeymoon, the couple send us the cards to be edited onto the frame and these original cards are returned together with the completed frame.
Our specialty is that we either print or scan the original messages onto the frame around the sketch, ensuring that perfect spacing and an overall pleasing look is achieved. Providing this in either a black or white modern frame, this product not only doubles as a great keepsake but great to hang proudly in the home as a reminder of the Special Day!

@illustratedinv
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The Illustrated Invitation
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Make Memento
Our hand-engraved, solid oak keepsake boxes make the perfect wedding gift for the happy couple! Perfect for storing treasured wedding keepsakes and mementos, you can make this gift extra special by adding a personalised engraved date to mark the special occasion!
Handmade to order in our studio, our solid oak wood boxes have been lovingly designed and crafted using thick, heavy European oak timber. The wood is hand-cut, then individually sanded and treated to enhance the natural grain and preserve the beauty of the wood. Our boxes are finished with a chic hand-engraving and black infill, with the heart arrow finished with a red infill – producing a truly unique style. Finally, our oak boxes are finished with a clear gloss protective varnish to ensure durability and display a stunning finish. These lift-lid boxes are great for presenting and storing cards, photos and other treasured wedding mementos!
Paper Tree Design

The wedding tree from Paper Tree Design is a great way to remember all the people who took part in your special day, family members on the hearts and friends written around the tree. It can be provided fully made up, or instead you can chose to have a blank tree and hearts for your guests to hand write around the tree. Various sizes are available depending on the number of guests, and prices start at £50.00. The tree can be colour matched to the colour theme of the wedding, contact suzanne@papertreedesign.co.uk for further details.
Paper Tree Design was created through a love of paper and a desire to produce beautiful and personal stationery and decorations. Thoughtfully designed, we focus on quality and attention to detail to make your stationery truly individual. With a background in Fashion and Textile Design, and 15 years experience in retail buying and product development Suzanne has a wealth of experience to draw on and is passionate about delivering design with little personal touches that reflect the clients loves and interests.
Living in rural Oxfordshire Suzanne cannot help but be inspired by the beauty of the natural world and the changing seasons, and can frequently be found in lanes and hedgerows with her camera and a sketchbook. Specialising in paper cutting, at Paper Tree Design we create your handcrafted wedding stationery to order. Choose to personalise a card from one of our ranges or commission a bespoke design. I am at my best working with your theme and ideas for a truly personal invitation and welcome you to come and have a chat and a cuppa in my Oxfordshire studio to discuss plans for your wedding.

@PaperTreeOxon
@Paper-Tree-Design
@papertreeoxon
recipegiftbook.com

recipegiftbook.com enables friends and family to give a truly meaningful gift to the bride and groom, the gift of a recipe.
Create a beautiful keepsake to celebrate your wedding day, a cookbook filled with recipes from all your wedding guests.
Whether it’s treasured family recipes or modern favourites, your guests will have fun sharing their recipes, photos and personal messages with you. Guests simply add their recipes online then following your wedding a charming hardback cookbook is sent to you.
Creating a ‘recipe gift book’ is a great way to bring both families together in the run up to a wedding. It’s a special cookbook and a wonderful way to collect precious recipes and create something unique to celebrate your marriage.
The bride and groom can choose from six recipe book designs and personalise the front cover title to make their book unique. When complete the bride and groom will receive a beautiful hardback book, presented in a gift box. The finished recipe book is free for the bride and groom. The guests just pay £4.99 to add a page to the book. The bride and groom can order additional copies of their recipe book and even allow guests to purchase a copy too.
recipegiftbook.com supply the ultimate personalised wedding present from all of the guests, a gift the bride and groom will treasure long after their wedding day. Take a look at their introductory video to find out more: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Di7YPD3koBA

@recipegiftbook
@recipegiftbook
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@recipegiftbook
Tree of Hearts

Tree of Hearts specialises in personalised wedding stationery and has over 90 beautiful collections to choose from including traditional, modern, vintage and beach designs catering for a wide range of tastes and styles. They offer quality stationery at affordable prices and have everything you need from save the date cards and wedding invitations to order of service, table plans, fingerprint trees and thank you cards.
Free samples are available upon request so you can see and feel the quality of their stationery ensuring it is perfect for your special day.
Fingerprint trees can incorporate approximately 50 (small), 80-100 (medium) or 150-200 (large) fingerprints per tree size. Includes a personalised print and 3 small ink pads in colours of your choice.

Wishing tree & wishing tags includes a white freestanding manzanita wishing tree (90cm tall) supplied with personalised wishing tags & sign in a design of your choice. The tags can be used for favour tags or wishing tags.


@tree_ofhearts

@TreeOfHeartsWeddingStationery

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by Hanami Dream | 2, November, 2016 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 2nd November 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, there’s some #toptips as well. This week’s theme is ‘wedding flowers’ #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: The tradition of wedding flowers is steeped in symbolism – lots to think about in terms of colour, meaning & seasonality #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: Include flowers in your bouquet, corsages, button holes, table decorations, flower walls, displays, confetti … #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: Remember that flowers are seasonal so your favourite might not be available or cheap if it’s not in season #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Flower prices vary during the year – especially red and pink roses around Valentine’s Day #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: Using local flowers & buying direct from the grower will save you money & you’ll have very fresh flowers #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: The colour of flowers change with the seasons #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips taken from Hanami Dream blog ‘Seasonal wedding flowers – a beginner’s guide‘ with thanks to Dee McMeeking #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 1, November, 2016 | blog, tips
As someone with dietary requirements, I’m always impressed (& relieved) when different diets are considered at a wedding (which also means I’ve got something to eat to soak up all that free drink!)
I stir clear of most dairy products (apart from the occasional chocolate treat and an annual ice cream when I’m on holiday) and have done for about 30 years now (yikes – now that’s showing my age isn’t it!) I found that dairy was a trigger for migraines and now I find that cheese or cream doesn’t agree with my stomach either after years of abstinence. Don’t get me wrong – I don’t miss it. In fact, just thinking about the smell of melted cheese makes me feel queasy!
When I was younger it was hard to find alternatives to dairy but now the supermarket shelves are stacked with wonderful ‘free from’ and alternatives to suit varied and diverse diets. I certainly don’t feel so difficult to cater for anymore!
For me, there’s not always an instant reaction to eating the things I avoid but for some people they may have a severe allergy or strong beliefs that mean they must not come in to contact with some foods.
That’s why I’m a strong believer in the importance of asking wedding guests if they have any special dietary requirements in order to respect their health, religious, moral or political choices. Plus it’s nice to have happy guests who don’t feel awkward (or hungry), tucking in to delicious food and not the same old unimaginative alternatives.

Here’s my quick ABC of how to make sure you’re covering all your bases when it comes to catering for special dietary requirements.
A – Ask your guests as early as you can. Include a section on your RSVP cards (to send with the invites) for them to be able to fill in any dietary requirements. Or even on your save the date cards if you’re really on the ball. You could even give them an example of what the menu might be and get people to choose their meals in advance.
B – Base the menu on your tastes – it is your day after all! It’s a good starting point to think about what you like and dislike to eat plus what you have enjoyed feasting on at weddings that you’ve attended as guests. You can ensure the food will fit your theme and style of wedding. However be mindful if your tastes are unconventional as you want to be inclusive to your guests too. Which leads us to the next point…
C – Customise your menu. Create your menu in such a way that anyone with an allergy or dietary requirement can still enjoy the main aspect of the meal. However, for example, a vegetarian option shouldn’t just remove the meat element of the dish but rather have a delicious alternative instead. Likewise, for a non dairy person like myself, having the option to be able to add your own sauce to a meal (that may have cream, yoghurt, butter or cheese in it) could mean that I could still enjoy the same dish but without the sauce (or with a substitute sauce) rather than it coming served in the sauce. The main dish could remain the same but with some ‘pick and mix’ elements to ensure dietary requirements are met. A clever caterer will be able to think of ways to alter dishes to suit.
D – Diets to consider could include the following (although this is by no means an exhaustive list):
- Vegetarian
- Vegan
- Non dairy
- Gluten free
- Kosher
- Halal
- Hindu
- Diabetic
- Low fat
- Low salt
- Nut free
- Child friendly
- Pregancy
E – Establish and eliminate elements of the menu. Once you have a list of your guests requirements you can start to construct a menu with your caterer or venue that can suit their needs. If you are unsure what they can/can’t eat then it is always best to confirm with them and show them specific ingredient lists from the chef. Decide how many main dishes will be offered to guests such as a meat, a fish and a vegetarian option that can then all be adjusted to take in to account the different diets.
F – Figure out the style of meal being offered. How you serve food can have an impact on offering alternatives. For example, a sit down meal can mean that meals can be tailored individually though could be increase costs to prepare separate dishes for different people. A (well labelled) buffet could mean that guests can choose the food that is most appropriate to their diets although means that food may have been premade and harder to adjust on the day. A hog roast is a cheap and tasty way to mass cater but provides limited choices and alternative options.
G – Go and meet with your caterer / venue. Any chef worth their weight in gold won’t be phased (or surprised) by the challenge of catering for guests with different dietary requirements. As long as they know enough in advance, they can plan and prepare for the different meals. It is also worth checking how they prepare the food if allergies or religion are the reason for some special diets as you may need to use specific caterers for some meals.
H – Have your cake and eat it. Don’t forget about all meals and beverages that are going to be consumed during the day including your wedding cake. Think about having different tiers of the cake made to suit different guests. Or even having an alternative to a cake altogether.
I – Inform your guests. Make sure that you check the final menu with the guests that are most affected so that they know what they will be able to eat on the day. Communication plus no surprises puts most people at ease.
J – Just checking. Confirm numbers, menu and dietary requirements with the caterers / venue just prior to the big day so that it’s fresh in their minds. Plus check that the waiting staff know where the special meals are to be served at each table. Perhaps put a subtle symbol on the name places that signifies a special meal.
You don’t have to provide an a la carte menu with several variations, you just need a flexible kitchen and an inventive chef or caterer who can conjure up a meal to suit all diners.
Enjoy picking the menu for your wedding breakfast. Remember that it is your special day and you should choose what you both love. You won’t be able to please all your guests however keeping them well fed will be a good start to keeping them happy. Bon appetite!
See another of my blog posts of other ways to keep your wedding guests happy.

by Hanami Dream | 27, October, 2016 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 26th October 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, there’s some #toptips as well. This week’s theme is ‘tips for booking a wedding band’ #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: Check that your band is fits in your venue. Ask your band leader the dimensions of their performance space #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: To roughly work out how much to spend on a wedding band take the number of musicians and multiply it by £250 #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: Confirm with the band how long and how many sets are included for the price #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Check the technical requirements of the band can be met by the venue inc number of power sockets required #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: Save money by choosing a band that offers a DJ package as well #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: Use a booking agent which will have bands for every budget and genre #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips taken from Hanami Dream blog ‘5 essential tips for booking your wedding band‘ with thanks to Matchbox Music #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 19, October, 2016 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 19th October 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, there’s some #toptips as well. This week’s theme is ‘tips for a minimalist wedding’ #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: Make sure any existing elements of venue or furniture are hidden to ensure nothing will distract the eye #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: Keep decor, florals and styling to a few key pieces and remember that less is more #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: Stick to one colour for maximum impact with white making an amazing statement #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Ask guests to wear a certain colour to create a theme and the use of minimal colours throughout #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: Create reflection – use metallic decor, silverware or mirrors to bounce natural light around the space #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: Use Perspex tables and chairs with no fussy table cloths or chair cover #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips taken from Hanami Dream blog ‘Top ten tips for a minimalist wedding with the wow factor’ #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 12, October, 2016 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 12th October 2016
As well as general wedding planning chat, there’s some #toptips as well. This week’s theme is ‘to absent friends’ #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: Read telegrams from those who can’t make it and raise a toast to absent friends #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: Set up framed photos on a table, hang photo charms on your bouquet, from shoes or placed in a locket #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: Wear heirlooms – wedding bands tied round an ankle or wrist, melt down wedding bands to make your own #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Use material from a piece of their clothing, handkerchiefs or ties, or monograms of initials stitched in your dress #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: Use their favourite flower, or have a single flower in a vase, or put your bouquet on their grave afterwards #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: Let balloons, Chinese lanterns or butterflies float off in to the sky #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips taken from Hanami Dream blog ‘To absent friends’ #UKWedLunch
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