by Hanami Dream | 17, May, 2017 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 17th May 2017
As well as general wedding planning chat, today we are talking about wedding planning tools – what do you use? #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #1: Utilise magazines or wedding blogs or collective sites like @BlogLovin or @aislesociety #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #2: Use visual social media like Pinterest and Instagram for inspiration #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #3: Download online resources, checklist, to do lists, rsvp trackers #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #4: Research local suppliers via online directories such as @guidesforbrides and @hitched and @cocovenues #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #5: Meet and sample suppliers products at wedding fairs, open days #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #6: Keep a note of your plans and spending whether in a notebook or in a spreadsheet #UKWedLunch
This week has been about wedding planning tools – what are the ones you can’t live without? #UKWedLunch
As well as general wedding planning chat, next week will be a networking week #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 10, May, 2017 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 10th May 2017
As well as general wedding planning chat, today we are talking about alternatives to wedding invitations #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #1: Instead of printing your invites – send electronic invites and manage your RSVPs online #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #2: Instead of printing your invites on paper – print on wood or acrylic or cloth or stamp biscuits #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #3: Print your invites on things guests can use like tea towels, mugs, magnets, Christmas baubles #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #4: Reveal the message gradually by having your invites on puzzles, balloons, scratch cards or a message in a bottle #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #5: Give a hint of your theme with invites as tickets, maps, books or board games #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #6: Go retro with your invite acted out in pictures that people can see through a view master #UKWedLunch
This week has been about alternatives to wedding invitations. Let me know if there’s any topics you’d like #UKWedLunch to cover.
As well as general wedding planning chat, next week’s topic will be wedding planning tools #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 3, May, 2017 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 3rd May 2017
As well as general wedding planning chat, today we are talking about first dances #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #1: Traditionally the happy couple take to the dance floor first to ‘open’ the floor. Will you be doing a first dance? #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #2: Pick a song that means something. Check all the lyrics (so they’re relevant and appropriate!) What have you picked? #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #3: Practice dancing together and brides try it in a long skirt/dress and heels #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #4: Consider having a routine choreographed. Will you have slow ballroom or modern upbeat dance? Any teachers near you? #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #5: Feeling shy? Bring your wedding party in to the dance and then rest of guests #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP #6: Add in some surprises – mash up of songs, flash mobs or outfit changes! What have you got planned? #UKWedLunch
This week has been about first dances. Let me know if there’s any topics you’d like #UKWedLunch to cover.
As well as general wedding planning chat, next week’s topic will be alternatives to wedding invitations #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 3, May, 2017 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 26th April 2017
As well as general wedding planning chat, today will be about networking & sharing recommendation #UKWedLunch
Next week will be talking about first dances #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 27, April, 2017 | news, styled shoots
Hanami Dream are looking for ‘the boy and girl next door’ type models for a modern Edwardian styled wedding shoot with a literature theme. The shoot will take place at a beautiful venue in Witney, Oxfordshire this May half term.
- Female – think Lady Mary Crawley in Downtown Abbey, approximately 20-30 years old, 170 cms tall or less, size 10-14
- Male – think Harry Styles with his new short hair in the Dunkirk movie, approximately 25-35 years old, around 175 cms tall, 40” chest, 32” waist
The shoot will be approximately 2-3 hours in the afternoon of Wednesday 31st May (weather permitting) and will provide some fantastic lifestyle shots for your portfolio (it’s also great as an engagement shoot or brilliant practice being in front of a camera before your big day).
One fitting prior to the date may be necessary. Own transport is required to Witney, OX28 3LA.
This project is supporting and showcasing local, independent wedding businesses – everyone provides their services and products for free and in return gets some wonderful lifestyle shots to use at a later date. This is a collaboration of like minded people that create great things together though don’t have the budgets to produce this kind of work if they all worked independently. See the images from Hanami Dream’s last styled bridal shoot.

If you’re available and would like to be involved in this fantastic styled bridal shoot then please email Hanami Dream
- by Friday 19th May 2017
- on info@www.hanamidream.co.uk
- including a quick intro, your stats, a contact number and 2 images of yourself (1 x face shoot, 1 x full length)

by Hanami Dream | 19, April, 2017 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 19th April 2017
As well as general wedding planning chat, today we celebrating achievements – personal/professional and big/small #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 1: It’s important to celebrate personal milestones – what are you proud of achieving this week? #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 2: Celebrating milestones gives a boost of encouragement & a sense of fulfilment #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 3: It provides recognition & recognises time & effort that has been put towards something #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 4: Share your big/small wins – a milestone in your wedding planning, a great testimonial, a product launch #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 5: What’s your next big milestone or thing you’re working towards? #UKWedLunch
TOP TIP 6: Take the time to give yourself some recognition and a little pat on the back #UKWedLunch
This week’s top tips are taken from Celebrating achievements #UKWedLunch
As well as general wedding planning chat, next week will be about networking & sharing recommendations #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 13, April, 2017 | #UKWedLunch, traditions
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 12th April 2017
As well as general wedding planning chat, this week there’s a wedding traditions quiz (just for fun!) Tweet your replies (answers at the end of #UKWedLunch)
Here we go… QUESTION 1: Why are church bells rung at the end of a wedding ceremony? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 2: Which is said to be the unluckiest month to get married in? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 3: In Victorian times, what did brides use as a code to convey hidden meanings? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 4: What do Greek brides put in their gloves for good luck? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 5: In Holland, what is planted outside a newly married couple’s home as a symbol of fertility? #UKWedLunch
QUESTION 6: What would happen if the single guests slept with a slice of wedding cake under their pillow? #UKWedLunch
Hope you’ve had fun! Here are the answers: A1= drive away evil spirits, A2= May, A3= flowers, A4= sugar cubes, A5= pine tree, A6= dream of future spouse #UKWedLunch
Congratulations if you got all the questions correct. See more wedding traditions on https://www.hanamidream.co.uk/category/traditions/ #UKWedLunch
Look forward to seeing you again in next Wednesday 1-2pm for more wedding planning chat and celebrating achievements. All the very best for a very Happy Easter! #UKWedLunch
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by Hanami Dream | 6, April, 2017 | tools, traditions
Take a break from tradition with this handy guide to modern alternatives to personalise your wedding.
- DRESS IN WHITE: Will your dress be white/ivory or will you break with tradition?
- MATCHING BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES: Will your bridesmaids have matching dresses or will you mismatch styles or colours?
- UNLUCKY TO SEE BRIDE BEFORE THE WEDDING: Will you opt to capture a ‘first look’ shot instead of following this tradition?
- THROWING THE BOUQUET: Will you throw your flowers or give them to longest married guests after anniversary dance?
- TOP TABLE: Will you sit your parents, best man and chief bridesmaid at the front or have your own table to yourself?
- WEDDING GIFTS: Will you ask for things for the home or experiences or honeymoon vouchers?

Whichever customs and traditions you decide to incorporate into your big day, Hanami Dream wish you health, wealth, happiness and all the very best in your married life.
After you’ve decided when your special day will be and sorted the major elements of your guest list, venue and budget (or the who, where and how much of what I term the ‘holy trinity of wedding planning‘) then you’re in to the nitty gritty of things.
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by Hanami Dream | 5, April, 2017 | blog, inspiration
Last October, Cogges Manor Farm hosted their first Wedding Open Day to showcase their wonderful barns and garden along with some highly talented, local suppliers who specialise in offering unique, bespoke and professional wedding services.
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Cogges Manor Farm is nestled in the lovely market town of Witney and offers two stunning seventeenth century barns for weddings. They are a perfect blank canvas where you can add loads of personalised details to make your special day complete.
At their Open Day, the Wheat Barn was dressed for an English country garden wedding, complete with beautiful pale pink accents and bird details, a hay bale aisle and framed ceremony focal point.

Photography by Hanami Dream
The barn was adorned with swashes of fairy lights (from Oakwood Events) across the beams giving the barn a warm romantic atmosphere.

Photography by Ric Mellis
The highly talented Paper Tree Design hung an impressive flower decorated heart (made from Tyvek) under the huge gilded frame, acting as a ceremony alter for the day. Wild rose paper garlands (printed with a pink gradient and threaded on to organza ribbon) hung behind the frame and were highlighted against the huge pink barn doors.

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A bird cage inspired seating plan was proudly displayed on a mirror, which reflected the soft light and guided people further in to the barn.

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Tables were decorated by Larkrise Flowers with an abundance of delicate and charming flowers, some sourced from the venue’s own walled garden, along with wheat (providing a nod to the venue’s wheat barn heritage).
Flowers on the top table (displayed in a terracotta urn) included:
- Rosa “Pink Avalanche”
- Rosa “Lazise”
- Eustoma “Arena Pink”
- Astrantia roma
- Sedum spectabile
- Eucalyptus nicholii – foliage
- Euonymus – foliage
- Asparagus fern – foliage
There were also English hydrangea heads in aged terracotta pots and echeveria secunda glauca in white pots, as well as plants of mixed herbs (rosemary, oregano, marjoram, thyme) and bellis perennis (daisies) in more terracotta pots.
The addition of succulents brought this tablescape bang up to date with mixed sempervivens under glass domes, plus mixed baby gourds, birch slices, glass storm lanterns and glass tea light holders making the table feel extremely plentiful.
In front of the top table ran a stunning floor display of pink cactus dahlias, verbena bonariensis, hedera foliage, wheat, sedum spectabile, and 3 types of grasses (lagurus ovatus, panicum, and setaria).

Photography by Ric Mellis
Stationery from Paper Tree Design complimented the stunning floral displays. From their Tree of Hearts wedding stationery range, this included:
- Robin name card – tent cards with pop out robins
- Menu card – individual menus printed on Harvest Colorplan card-stock
- Wild roses with tie on name cards – hand made paper wild roses with luggage tag style name cards tied on with natural bakers twine
- Wild rose heads – small handmade paper wild rose heads used to decorate the tablescape
- Robin & Wildflower table numbers – made from off white card and mounted on to sticks and decorated with bakers twine (these numbers can also be made for use with number stands or freestanding)
- Robin & Wild Flower top table sign – made from off white card and mounted on to a stick and decorated with bakers twine (this can also be made for use with number stands or freestanding)

Photography by Hanami Dream
Vintage props were provided by Mabel and Rose including old suitcases, ladders, milk churns and barrels.
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Accompanying food followed the rustic English country garden vibe, consisting of Yorkshire pudding and roast beef canapés, a ‘cheese’ cake and ice creams provided by Abigail’s Kitchen, Wates & Co Delicatessen and Mag’s & Tim’s Ice Cream Trike, respectively.
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The whole effect gave an example of one direction you could take to make this venue your own – a real abundance of local, natural products with a feeling of bringing the outside inside.
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Venue | Cogges Manor Farm | Witney, Oxfordshire | http://www.cogges.org.uk/
Photography | Ric Mellis
Catering, cutlery & crockery | Abigail’s Kitchen | 07771616415 | abipritcher@yahoo.com
‘Cheese’ cake | Wates & Co Delicatessen | https://www.facebook.com/Wates-Co-Delicatessen-1668555833361530/
Flowers | Lark Rise Flowers | http://larkriseflowers.com
Hay bales | sourced by venue
Ice cream | Mag’s & Tim’s Ice Cream Trike | https://www.facebook.com/magsxtimsicecreamtrike
Lighting | Oakwood Events | http://www.oakwoodevents.co.uk/
Prop hire | Mabel & Rose | http://www.mabelandrose.com/vintage-hire/
Stationery | Paper Tree Design | https://www.papertreedesign.co.uk/

By the way – get Sunday 17th September in your diary. It is this year’s Wedding Open Day at Cogges. So go along to see this venue in all it’s glory or contact them in the meantime for an earlier look round.
by Hanami Dream | 5, April, 2017 | #UKWedLunch
#UKWedLunch – Wednesday 5th April 2017
As well as general wedding planning chat, today we look at modern alternatives to wedding traditions – which will you break #UKWedLunch
DRESS IN WHITE: Will your dress be white/ivory or will you break with tradition? #UKWedLunch
MATCHING BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES: Will your bridesmaids have matching dresses or will you mismatch styles or colours? #UKWedLunch
UNLUCKY TO SEE BRIDE BEFORE THE WEDDING: Will you opt to capture a ‘first look’ shot instead of following this tradition? #UKWedLunch
THROWING THE BOUQUET: Will you throw your flowers or give them to longest married guests after anniversary dance? #UKWedLunch
TOP TABLE: Will you sit your parents, best man and chief bridesmaid at the front or have your own table to yourself? #UKWedLunch
WEDDING GIFTS: Will you ask for things for the home or experiences or honeymoon vouchers? #UKWedLunch
Email info@www.hanamidream.co.uk for more suggestions for modern alternatives to wedding traditions by #UKWedLunch
As well as general wedding planning chat, next week will be a wedding traditions quiz #UKWedLunch
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