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Pantone® announce colour report for Spring 2016

Pantone® announce colour report for Spring 2016

Pantone spring 2016
At this time of year Spring seems a long way off – we’ve just entered the Autumn Equinox, the leaves are changing colour, nights are drawing in and the mornings are bitterly cold (thankfully we’ve had some lovely sunny days though!).

However those lovely folks at Pantone® have just announced their colour report for Spring 2016, released to coincide with New York Fashion Week. And this palette of ten fresh and vibrant colours gives us hope for the Spring time when everything will come back to life again.

The colours seem full of sunshine and are really vibrant rather than just subtle pastels. There seems a real cohesion and they blend together in harmony. There’s not a colour that jars amongst them and we can already imagine some nifty colour partnerships amongst them.

We love the combination of the navy Snorkel Blue, yellow Buttercup and aqua Limpet Shell which transports us right to a tropical beach in the summer time – representing the sky, sand and sea respectively. Which is just the desired outcome by the Pantone Color Institute™ who say that ‘Colors this season transport us to a happier, sunnier place where we feel free to express a wittier version of our real selves.’

These colours are intended to be calming, soothing, relaxing and have a sense of escapism. This is a chilled out vacation in Cuba with days spent relaxing by the sea and nights full of fiestas.

The top ten colours for Spring 2016 are:

  • PANTONE 13-1520 Rose Quartz
  • PANTONE 16-1548 Peach Echo
  • PANTONE 15-3919 Serenity
  • PANTONE 19-4049 Snorkel Blue
  • PANTONE 12-0752 Buttercup
  • PANTONE 13-4810 Limpet Shell
  • PANTONE 16-3905 Lilac Gray
  • PANTONE 17-1564 Fiesta
  • PANTONE 15-1040 Iced Coffee
  • PANTONE 15-0146 Green Flash

Pantone® is the world-renowned authority on colour and the Pantone® Color of the Year is always really influential in any popular colour themes in fashion, interior design and weddings.

We wait with baited breath for the release of the 2016 news. Could it be the turn of an orange colour to be the Color of the Year such as Peach Echo? Or perhaps a strong neutral like Iced Coffee that will blend with Spring as well as Fall colours? Or our particular favourite is Buttercup. Let’s wait for December to find out!

 

What if? Do you really need wedding insurance?

What if? Do you really need wedding insurance?

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My phone broke the other week and I lost all my photos. I was gutted I’d not backed it up recently. It made me realise how important pictures are to me – a lasting memory of a moment in time never to be replayed. Luckily technology nowadays allows us to have a back up, prepare for the worst and gives us options should accidents or the unexpected happen. Surely we should apply this same back up plan mentality when thinking about one of the biggest (and most expensive) days of our lives? Here are some things to think about, courtesy of those nice people at Silk Thistle Wedding Insurance.

When planning your wedding, insurance is probably the last thing on your mind. After all, there are so many important decisions to make: Finding the perfect venue, planning menus, colour schemes and flowers. Would you like your bouquet cascade or would a single flower make more of a statement? Should you have a traditional three-tier cake or one made of cheese or even a pork pie wedding cake? Would you prefer a vintage Rolls Royce to take you there or something a little different, like a double decker bus or a Hummer?

Even wedding photography has got more complicated; drones, videos and photo booths are all available, as well as some amazing wedding photographers, but who or what do you choose? There are wedding trends you had never even thought of: Boho, Gatsby, Rockabilly and Fairytale to name a few. Your wedding dress will reflect your style so it’s essential to get it right. And what about the shoes?

You plan everything down to the minutest detail. It’s like a military operation. What could possibly go wrong……?

Well unfortunately, things don’t always go to plan. What if the hotel you had booked your reception at went into receivership, along with your hefty deposit just two weeks before the wedding? Or the bridal shop burnt down, along with your dress? What if your Dad had to go into hospital suddenly? The seating plan would be the least of your worries as you would be more likely to postpone the wedding altogether. It’s all very well planning for a little rain, but what if the weather was so bad you and your guests couldn’t even get there? What would you do if the photographer’s equipment was stolen and all those memories lost or the wedding cake got damaged in transit?

Wedding Insurance can protect against such eventualities by covering you financially should things go wrong. At Silk Thistle Wedding Insurance, there are six levels of cover to suit every budget, as well as optional extras like marquee, ceremonial swords and public liability cover. They cover things like the rings, venue, dress, cake, suppliers and even photography (if only they covered losing photos on smart phones!)

With the average wedding in the UK costing over £20,000 they don’t come cheap. It is a large financial commitment, probably the biggest you’ll make after buying a house and a car. Wedding Insurance is probably one of the smallest expenses of your wedding budget. It could be the best money you’ll ever spend on your wedding!

For more information go to www.silkthistle.co.uk

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5 essential tips for booking your wedding band

5 essential tips for booking your wedding band

Booking your band is often one of the more enjoyable tasks when it comes to planning your wedding, however to prevent any hiccups on your special day (apart from those caused by the Champagne) have a read of the 5 essential tips below expertly compiled from the lovely people at Matchbox Music.

1. Size, does it matter?
Some say size doesn’t matter, but if you get to your wedding night and you haven’t checked your measurements you could be in for a disappointing end to the day.
I am of course talking about the size of your band. Although it might sound obvious, you should always check that your band is actually going to fit in your venue. If you are unsure, just send your band leader the dimensions of their performance space. Any professional band will be able to give you a size estimate for their act prior to the wedding.

2. Money, money, money
When trying to work out how much to spend on a wedding band, a general rule of thumb is to take the number of musicians and multiply it by £250. This can be used as an estimate for the starting price of a band excluding travel expenses, so for a 3-piece band you can expect the cost to start from £750. Make sure you confirm with the band how long and how many sets are included for the price, you can expect on the above price an average two 1-hour sets or three 45 minute sets.

You might have found your dream band for a price that fits your budget, but if the band has to travel 500 miles to get to your wedding, you’re going to have to pay hefty travel expenses or even pay for accommodation. Instead if you find a band that is more local to your wedding venue, the money you save on travel expenses can instead be used to pay for longer sets of music, a larger band or even getting the band to play your first dance.

3. Technical difficulties
Checking that the technical requirements of the band can be met by the venue is hugely important. Imagine booking a band to play outdoors at your wedding, only to find out on the day that the venue has no way of providing power for the band, it would be a disaster that could easily of been avoided.
A simple way to avoid such situations is to check the rider. A rider is simply a list of technical and general requirements that the band need in order to perform which you as the client are responsible for providing. Typical items to be found on the rider will be the number of power sockets required, providing a changing room for the musicians, and providing the band with a meal. If all items on the rider are not met, the band are within their rights to not perform, so it is important to carefully read through it.
Once you have read the rider, check with an appropriate agent at your venue that all the requirements can be met. It is better to do this sooner rather than later so any problems can be rectified.

4. Using a booking agent
Using an agent makes the process of finding your wedding band a lot simpler and more enjoyable. A good agency will have an easy to use website, which will have bands for every budget and genre. You can seamlessly browse through the acts, comparing their promotional videos, set lists and testimonials until you find the band that is perfect for your special day.
Using an agent can sometimes cost a little extra, but that money is well invested in the knowledge that you have support should any issues arise during the lead up to your wedding. In the event of the unexpected, such as the band breaking the contract, you won’t find yourself in a situation where you have no band with only a week until the wedding!

5. Superstar DJs – here we go!
To keep your guests dancing the night away even after the band has finished you’re going to need some music, and for this you will need to book a DJ… or do you? A way to potentially save money is to choose a band that offers a DJ package. Each band will offer different DJ add-ons ranging from a simple iPod playlists to a full DJ with decks. Whatever the case, if the band offers a DJ service it is probably going to be more cost effective than outsourcing an independently booked DJ.

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With these top tips you’ll be set to dance the night away. If you’d like to find out more about booking a wedding band visit www.matchboxmusic.co.uk or contact Matchbox Music at info@matchboxmusic.co.uk

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Happy Wedding Anniversary!

Happy Wedding Anniversary!

The summer is a really special time of the year for me. Not only is it the height of the wedding season but it is also when I celebrate my own wedding anniversary with my lovely husband. We had such a beautiful wedding day spent with all our friends and family and we love to look back on the day with great fondness.

Celebrating your wedding day (and more importantly the passing commitment of your marriage) is often celebrated with a specific gift based on the number of years you have been married. This tradition dates back to the Middle Ages and the gifts relate to bringing luck to the couple. The gifts increase in value to reflect the time that the couple have invested in their marriage and each other.

To mark our anniversary my 87 year old Nan (despite being self-titled Mad Nan) always gets it right with our anniversary gift. She still relies on her trusting diary and with the aid of the lists at the back can easily identify which gift corresponds to which anniversary. This year she bought us a beautiful pot plant, last year was leather bookmarks, before that was a sewing kit with cotton reels in it and she gave us books the first year.

I’m truly lucky to have seen both sets of my grandparents reach their diamond wedding anniversary (60th). A feat that will be harder for our generation to achieve so readily. Until their passing, it was a joy to see my grandparents walking down the promenade holding hands, or squeezing each other’s knees and still so much in love. On my wedding day, my grandfather (he’s now nearly 92) gave me away and his advice to a long and loving marriage was good communication. He said to keep talking about everything and never to go to bed on an argument.

I remember going to many silver and ruby family anniversaries as a child and thinking that it was such a long amount of time to have spent doing anything. They were always amazing occasions and sometimes the only time we saw some of our distant relatives. One set of my grandparents always had big wedding anniversary parties. I went to their 30th, 40th, 50th and 60th parties and it was so special to celebrate with them and see how much everyone had changed every 10 years. When my grandparents had their 50th anniversary we put together a big food hamper and had great fun collecting together any food and other products with gold in the title (Gold Blend, All Gold, Golden Syrup, Golden Wonder, St Ivel Gold, Golden Grahams etc. You’ll be looking now next time you’re in the supermarket!)

Lots of couples nowadays are choosing to renew their vows more often and have another wedding celebration, as well as having anniversary parties to mark milestone years.

Meanwhile, some other popular trends include buying your new spouse an 0th anniversary present which is a gift to celebrate your wedding day such as cuff links, jewellery or a photo album.

Another way to celebrate long marriages might be with an anniversary dance at a wedding instead of throwing the bouquet. This is when you ask couples to all enjoy a dance together on the dance floor. One by one, the couples are asked to sit down during the song based on the length of their time together. The last couple on the dance floor will be the longest-married couple and they receive the bouquet. What a wonderful way to celebrate their togetherness!

If you don’t have a paper diary with those handy reference pages then you might want to take a look below at our compiled list of both traditional and modern themes. Some of the gifts in the traditional column have options depending on which side of the pond you want to take inspiration from! There are also lists in my Mad Nan’s diary for which flowers to give as gifts depending on the wedding anniversary year, as well gemstone gifts per year. What a font of knowledge my Nan ends up being!

Year Traditional Modern
1st Paper Clock
2nd Cotton China
3rd Leather Crystal / Glass
4th Fruit / Flowers OR
Linen / Silk
Appliances
5th Wood Silverware
6th Iron / Sweets Wood
7th Copper / Wool Desk Set
8th Salt / Bronze Linen/Lace
9th Willow / Pottery Leather
10th Aluminium / Tin Diamond
11th Steel Jewellery
12th Silk / Linen Pearls
13th Lace Textiles/Fur
14th Ivory Gold Jewellery
15th Crystal Watches
20th China Platinum
25th Silver Silver
30th Pearl Diamond
35th Coral Jade
40th Ruby Ruby
45th Sapphire Sapphire
50th Gold Gold
55th Emerald Emerald
60th Diamond Diamond
65th Blue Sapphire Blue Sapphire
70th Platinum Platinum
80th Oak Oak

Whether you’re celebrating your 0th anniversary, 25th, 30th, 40th or planning to make a new anniversary then we wish you a very happy one.

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All change – checklist when changing your name

All change – checklist when changing your name

If you’re thinking about changing your name when you get married there’s a few important documents that you’ll need to update (including your passport if you’re travelling in your married name on honeymoon!)

Here’s our list of documents and organisations that you might need to tell about your name change.

HOME:

  • Mortgage company or management agency
  • Council tax
  • Electric board
  • Gas board
  • Telephone company
  • Cable / satellite company
  • Mobile company
  • TV licence
  • Water board
  • Contents insurance
  • Buildings insurance
  • Storage
  • Home Emergency

MONEY:

  • Banks
  • Building societies
  • Credit cards
  • ISA
  • National savings
  • Premium bonds
  • Child benefit
  • Card protection

PROFESSIONAL:

  • Pension companies
  • Life Assurance
  • Inland revenue
  • Solicitor
  • Accountant
  • Professional bodies
  • Work

CAR:

  • Driving licence / DVLA
  • DVLC / V5
  • Car tax
  • Motoring associations
  • Vehicle insurance

HEALTH:

  • Health insurance
  • Travel insurance
  • Optician
  • Doctor
  • Dentist
  • Dental insurance

OTHER:

  • Passport
  • Sports clubs
  • Library
  • Catalogues
  • Magazines
  • Electoral roll
  • Flying clubs
  • Store / reward / loyalty cards
  • Charities

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(Honey)mooning over the summer

(Honey)mooning over the summer

Friday 31st July, 2015 saw the rare occurrence of a blue moon. So named due to the frequency of the event rather than the colour of the moon. It happens every few years when there are two full moons in the same calendar month. The next one won’t be until 2018, so it really only happens ‘once in a blue moon’.

It’s interesting how the word ‘moon’ features in many common sayings and phrases. For example,’ once in a blue moon’ refers to something extremely rare.

Other ‘moon’ based idioms can mean striving for the best, longing for something, pining for something, extravagant promises, being extremely happy or can relate to the length of a lunar cycle (around a calendar month).

One common term based on a lunar month is ‘honeymoon’ (a word used a lot in conjunction with our favourite topic of weddings!) This word is said to come from the 5th century when a man would have captured his bride. The couple would hide for a full cycle of the moon after the wedding. During this month the newlywed couple drank mead (or honey wine) which is believed to have aphrodisiac properties.

Nowadays, a honeymoon is the holiday that newlyweds choose to take after the wedding to celebrate their marriage and spend time alone together (and recover from the wedding!) Traditionally the honeymoon was organised and paid for by the groom.

Honeymoon destinations vary wildly from exotic or far flung places to romantic or sentimental locations. The world really is your oyster! If you’re going abroad, don’t forget to consider whether you’ll be travelling in your maiden name or married name (if you choose to change it). Whichever you decide, make sure your passport and tickets have the same name on them. See our checklist of other documents and organisations to tell about your change of name too.

So whether you’re planning your honeymoon now or you went ‘many moons ago’, we’re sure you’ll be ‘over the moon’ as your partner ‘promised you the moon’. Don’t ‘moon over’ the places you haven’t visited yet, instead make sure you ‘shoot for the moon’ and ensure your holidays away together are not just ‘once in a blue moon’.

And then there suddenly appeared before me
The only one my arms will ever hold
I heard somebody whisper please adore me
And when I looked the moon had turned to gold

Blue moon
Now I’m no longer alone
Without a dream in my heart
Without a love of my own

Richard Rodgers & Lorenz Hart 1934

 

Wedding traditions: Don’t forget the silver sixpence in your shoe!

Wedding traditions: Don’t forget the silver sixpence in your shoe!

There are many traditions, rituals and customs that people uphold and perform in connection with weddings. Some of these have now lost their relevance in modern society and sometimes we are not even sure why we undertake them. However we continue to perform them for fun, family tradition and superstition, especially as many of them have derived from efforts to bestow the happy couple with good luck.

One such tradition stems from an old English rhyme concerning items that the bride should wear or carry to bring her luck on her special day.

Something old,
something new,
something borrowed,
something blue,
and a silver sixpence in her shoe.

The full version of the rhyme includes the line about a silver sixpence which sadly sometimes gets forgotten. The rhyme is said to originate in Victorian times although some of the traditions are thought to be much older.

Something old:
This represents the link with the bride’s family and friends from the past. The object is commonly an heirloom such as jewellery or a garter and is passed on to offer good luck from a happily married woman.

Something new:
This item symbolises a happy and prosperous new life. Often this item is the wedding dress.

Something borrowed:
This lent item is to remind the bride that her friends and family will be there for her whenever she needs their help. The borrowed object must be returned to ensure good luck.

Something blue:
This item symbolises faithfulness and loyalty. The colour blue often represented purity in olden times. Sometimes the bride’s garter is the blue item or you could add a pop of colour to your outfit in the form of blue shoes or blue nail varnish. This item usually leads to great levels of creativity!

And a silver sixpence in her shoe:
Then comes the last line that is so often missed out. This part of the rhyme is about placing a silver sixpence in the bride’s left shoe to ensure the couple have wealth in the future (both financial and happiness). It is thought that this tradition came about in Elizabethan times when the Lord of the Manor would have often given a sixpence as a wedding gift to any brides that lived on his land. It also harks back to times when the bride’s parents would offer a dowry.

Whichever customs and traditions you decide to incorporate into your big day, we wish you health, wealth, happiness and all the very best in your married life.

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Celebrating achievements

Celebrating achievements

It’s coming to the end of the academic year in the UK and plans are afoot for celebrating the end of exams, achieving new qualifications and obtaining degrees.

Business gurus, psychologists and life coaches all agree on the importance of marking and celebrating achievements whether they’re academic, professional or personal milestones.

Thinking back to my old corporate days, the act of celebrating achievements for businesses can help to:

  • Bond a team together
  • Build morale
  • Increase motivation
  • Provide recognition
  • Establish benchmarks
  • Reward objectives and targets that have been met
  • Recognise the time and energy that has been put towards something

On a personal level, celebrating milestones can:

  • Mark the end or beginning of a chapter
  • Provide a time of reflection
  • Build confidence
  • Give a boost of encouragement
  • Provide a sense of fulfilment

From early on in our lives, striving for achievement is instilled in us. Whether this was with sticker charts where small steps add up to a reward after lots of hard work. Or dancing or music exams that test learned knowledge and give certificates so you can move up to the next level. Or watching athletes compete to win gold medals at the Olympics. Exams at school, college and university are a transition to the next step and act as a passage to adulthood.

There are lots of ways to commemorate achievements whether they’re personal milestones, momentous occasions, family events, team building or award ceremonies. Around this time of year, some academia hold proms, graduation balls or end of year parties. We need no excuse for a good party! See our Graduation Prom Pinterest board for more inspiration.

So if you’re celebrating your achievements at the moment (whether this is a big or small occasion or just giving yourself a little treat) make sure you take the time to give yourself some recognition and a little pat on your back. The tassle will be worth the hassle!

Good luck with any exams and congratulations on your achievements!

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Thank you gifts at weddings

Thank you gifts at weddings

Having your friends and family all together and celebrating your special day is often the best gift you can have on your wedding day. Some guests may have travelled a long distance, helped out financially, given their time, skills or support to help with the day. So whilst your guests may be showering you with gifts, it is often customary to give your guests and wedding party a gift to thank them for their involvement too.

Favours for guests
Gifts for your guests can be great mementos or souvenirs of the day showing a token of your appreciation whilst also matching your theme or colour scheme.

Favours originate from European aristocrats who gave their guests Bonbonnieres at high class weddings. These were small ornate and embellished boxes that often contained sugar or sweets. Back in the thirteenth century, sugar was not only considered a luxury item (especially as it was more expensive and harder to get hold of) but it was also believed to be medicinal too.

The tradition of favours spread, with couples in Greece giving sugar covered almonds and Middle Eastern couples giving their guests five almonds. Sugared almonds are now a very common tradition in weddings worldwide. Typically the number of sweets or sugared almonds is an odd number, significant as it cannot be divided between two. Also, the number five is indivisible which symbolises a strong union between the newlywed couple. Plus, the number five has special significance for Christians to represent Health, Wealth, Happiness, Long Life and Fertility.

As weddings used to be seen as a lucky occasion, couples wanted to pass on their good luck to the wedding guests by giving them a favour.

When wedding favours first came to England, in the sixteenth century, couples would give ‘love knots’ made of ribbons and lace to their guests. Nowadays couples are choosing more unique, personalised, dated and themed gifts. Here’s a pick of some of our current favourite favours to eat, meet, keep or have as a treat:

Edible

  • Traditional sugared almonds
  • Chocolate bars with personalised wrappers
  • Retro sweets (think flyer saucers, dip dabs and flumps)
  • Loveheart sweets (brought up to date with new slogans such as ‘text me’!)
  • Lollipops in a communal bowl on the table
  • Cake pops

Ice breakers

  • Games to play with other guests on the same table
  • Cameras to snap candid shots
  • Colouring books to keep children entertained

To wear at wedding

  • Flip flops for when your heels are hurting your dancing feet
  • Sun glasses for an outside wedding on a sunny day
  • Umbrellas for an outside wedding when the weather isn’t as sunny
  • Moustaches just for fun
  • Temporary tattoos

Grow

  • Packets of seeds to grow vegetables
  • Dried herbs to add to meals at home
  • Succulents or other potted plants

Drink

  • Alcohol miniatures
  • Loose leaf tea
  • Shot glass

Decorations

  • Scented candles
  • Soap
  • Fridge magnets to always remember the couples’ wedding anniversary

Or how about a lottery ticket to share a bit of the good luck from the day?

 

Gifts for wedding party
In addition to your guests, you may also want to give special gifts to thank those in the wedding party (such as the best men, bridesmaids and parents) for their support. Options for these gifts can be really personalised to the individual, however here are some of our suggestions to get you started:

• Handkerchief embroidered with monogram
• Pocket watch
• Cuff links
• Hip flask
• Wallet
• Pen knife
• Tankard
• Bottle opener
• Leather wash bag
• Compact mirror
• Photo frame
• Artwork
• Fruit tree
• Jewellery

 

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Last, but by no means least, you might want to buy your new spouse a gift to celebrate your wedding day such as:
• Cuff links
• Jewellery
• Photo album

 

Whether you give favours or not, don’t forget to thank all your guests in your speech for their presence and send thank you notes for their presents.

 

Welcoming newborns

Welcoming newborns

This month we are welcoming the arrival of some special newborns in to the world.

Firstly, it seems the whole world is on tender hooks for news of the second child of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge. Plus, we’ve also had great news of new babies for some of our close friends – huge congratulations on your little ones! (And good luck to those still waiting.)

For our friends, we’ve rushed out to post cards of congratulations, family have wet the babies heads and grandparents have furiously knitted for their new grandchildren.

A new baby brings a reason for celebration and this month’s arrivals have intrigued us to look at how the birth of a baby is marked differently the whole world over. Different religions and cultures welcome newborns in many different ways but they mainly focus on introducing the baby to their community, announcing their name and giving them the best start possible. Here are some of our favourite ones that we’ve collated:

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  • Jewish and Muslim families circumcise baby boys. The Jewish bris ceremony is often conducted eight days after a baby is born.
  • In the Hindu religion, newborn boys have their heads shaved to remove negative influences from previous lives.
  • Likewise, Muslims traditionally shave a baby’s head seven days after it is born. The baby’s hair is weighed, and the equivalent weight in gold and silver (or its monetary equivalent) is given to charity.
  • Babies feet cannot touch the ground in Bali for its first 210 days as babies are considered divine and from heaven.
  • In Japan, the umbilical cord is kept in a wooden box.
  • Whilst in Jamaica, the afterbirth and cord are buried with a tree planted on top.

trees

  • Speaking of trees, it is traditional to plant a cedar tree for a boy and a pine tree for a girl in Jewish culture (which can be cut down to make the supports for their wedding canopy).
  • Whilst in Switzerland, new births are celebrated with apple trees being planted for the birth of a boy and nut trees for the birth of a girl.

stay inside

  • In Armenia, new mums stay at home with the baby for the first 40 days of their life to protect it from bad luck. Only those living in that house can hold or touch the baby.
  • Many cultures believe mother’s should have bedrest or be helped by other family members for the first month of a babies life

gifts

  • In Finland, every baby gets a maternity pack from the government.
  • Whilst in Indonesia, Singapore, Vietnam and China, red eggs are given out by the family to signify a joyous occasion and a sense of renewal.

names

  • Nepalese families bring the newborn baby to a priest so he can pick the baby’s name.
  • In China, The name must harmonize with the date and time of the birth so it can be linked to the right element: water, gold, wood, fire, earth.
  • An Aboriginal tribe in Australia carries out the naming ritual during the actual birth of the baby. The midwife calls out the names of all the child’s living relatives one by one. The name chosen is the one being called at the moment of the final stages of the birthing process with the delivery of the placenta.
  • For some Buddhist families, an astrologer will draw a horoscope to determine the initial that the name should begin with.
  • In China, all children of one generation share the same middle name and there is a cycle of 24 generation names.
  • The Inuit usually name newborns after recently deceased family members. This custom is a kind of reincarnation: by taking on that relative’s name, the baby will also take on their qualities or strengths.
  • Boys in Japan are given a short, simple name soon after their birth, which they use until their teens.  As they get near adulthood, there is a special ceremony where they are given a longer, formal name.
  • In some parts of Africa one of the ceremonies involves different names being written on pieces of paper.  The name is chosen from the first piece of paper that the baby touches.
  • Balinese babies are named according to the order in which they’re born.

naming ceremonies

  • After an Inuit child is born, the community’s shaman performs a kind of baptismal ceremony and the baby is given a protective spirit.
  • Christians bless babies a few weeks or months following the birth.  The traditions vary with each branch of the Church. Some have a baptism or christening, while others have a service of blessing and thanksgiving.  Often babies are dressed in a white christening gown which could be an heirloom sometimes passed from one generation to the next or made from the mother’s wedding dress.
  • In Ireland, the baby wears a special christening bonnet, made from a hanky that the mother carried on her wedding day. When that child gets older and marries, the bonnet is turned back into a handkerchief that the bride carries during the wedding.
  • For Hindus, the baby is taken to a Hindu temple 40 days after birth for a naming ceremony.
  • In China, although the baby’s personal name is chosen soon after the birth, the celebration takes place after 100 days have passed.

food

  • For some religions such as Hindu and Sikh, baboes are given honey or sweetened water to signify the sweeter things in life.
  • Many cultures celebrate the first time the baby is given food.
  • At some Christian christenings, the top tier of a couple’s wedding cake is redecorated and served to celebrate the birth of their child.

religious initiation rites

  • Many religions continue marking transitions and rites of passage in their children’s lives as they come of age.
  • Some Christians have baptisms as part of a confirmation service when they are older.
  • Jewish boys and girls have bar mitzvah or bat mitzvah ceremonies when they are 13 and12 years old, respectively.

future

  • In China and Armenia, a baby is offered a collection of objects relating to different professions, such as a paint brush, a tool, medicine or money.  It is believed that whatever the child grasps will predict his or her future profession.

All the best to you if you’re expecting or have just welcomed your own new little one. We’d love to know how you will celebrate their birth.